Archive for October, 2011
“Love” is one of the top questions asked of me in a reading. The words “I love you” are easy to say, but harder to back up with actions. Men and women may speak a different “language” from each other but “actions” are universal. Advice I give to those that ask “Do they love me” is “IF they do something to you, that you would NOT do to them….they neither care about or love you.” This goes for any relationship….family, friendship or romance. This does not mean you are unlovable, it is their issues that keep them from loving you. You also have to be honest with yourself….it is hard to let go of love, even if one sided. But..if you don’t let it go, you will not make room for the real love that will come into your life. Be honest and do not make excuses as to why they treated you in a way you would not treat them. ♥ ♥ ♥
“There are only two things you can control in life….how you act and how you re-act….so let the rest go” (Me)
A lesson in life, for most of us, is to learn that if we are not in control of the outcome, we need to let go of the stress/worry it causes us.
You are what you are today, because of the choices you made before.
Never regret your life or choices you have made….you can’t go back and change them and IF you could you would be a different person today.
“Happiness is unrepentant pleasure.” (Socrates)
“You can tell more about a person by what he/she says about others than you can by what others say about him/her” (unknown)
A person’s true personality comes out by what he/she says about others as well as how he/she treats others. If you are dating this ‘wonderful’ person yet all they can do is talk negative about someone or be rude to the people he/she interacts with…then he/she is not so ‘wonderful’. He/she will soon be treating you the same way.
“In the end, it’s not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away.” (shing xiong)
For me, this means that life is meant to be lived to the fullest because you are not going to remember everything…you will remember those things that touched your heart the most. People will remember you by how you touched their heart.
This was sent to me by a person on FB who knows nothing about me. When I was in the second grade I had a near death experience. I met God. I have never wavered in my belief in God. On the other side there is so much love and acceptance…nothing else. God Loves and Accepts EVERYONE. We were made in ‘His Image’ not so much as how he looks…but more of His Light, the capacity to love and accept. He wants us to lift each other up, not judging, shaming and guilting. He wants us to LOVE and ACCEPT, as it is in Heaven.